Instead of Dubcon: a Recpost

So I came to a realization, which I posted on Twitter:

I feel much less need to look for dubcon/noncon now that I can find fics of masochism/humiliation/pretend rape in loving relationships. Because one thing I like better than noncon masochism/etc is masochism/etc with cuddles and schmoop on top.

And then I thought some recs were in order. ( Misc kink recs inside! )

More recs along these veins would be greatly appreciated. ( Some guidelines for Stuff I Like And Makes Me Happy: )