So I got wanked on the anon!meme. I'm still kinda shaky all over it, but mostly not as upset as I thought I'd be. If anybody interested, it's here
- don't go in there if you get upset about people saying unpleasant things about Ana, Aja or yours truly.
The thing is: I honestly didn't realize I offended anyone. I'm kinda thick and tactless sometimes, and this is something that's caused me a bunch of pain in my personal life. I didn't mean any harm, and if I caused any, then I'm sorry. Please, if I've hurt you, would you tell me so so I can apologize and maybe be better in the future?
Mind you, I have preferences, like everyone else. Nobody's obligated to share my preferences, like I'm not obligated to share theirs. The way I expressed this preference was offensive, and I'm truly sorry for that. I'll try to express my preferences in a more positive way in the future - flail about what is rather than whine about what isn't, write and comment and try to be a happier Dana in general rather than being a whinyface about everything. Nobody likes that.
Specifically, I do want to apologize for the way I worded things. I like it, in fic, when people discuss what they like and what they want, and I stand by my enjoyment of this, but the comments I made were offensive and stupid. It sounded like I think less of people who don't write or like that, or that the character on the bottom is emasculated - which isn't what I think, and I shouldn't have said it like that. So for that, I'm sorry.
That said, I'm me. I'm not very socially graceful, I like things that not everybody likes, I'm an attention whore when it comes to my writing and, all right, sometimes in general, though I don't think I'm a drama queen. I'm going to talk about the things I write on this journal and on my twitter because, hey, that's what they're for. I'm going to talk about myself because I like to, and I refuse to feel bad about that.